& vise/versa(sorry but its true) When a black male approaches me im sure he reads my body language and if I want him to say something I look in his face and it encourages him to do it.
I have ALWAYS related to men much better , even while a small child, much to my Momma's disdain. I lived in louisiana for the birth of my first two kids and the ladies there are just so laid back and wholesome and awwwsum!! As far as black men go, I love they way they approach, they are SO charming and boy can they pour it on. and PRETTYMOON, once again, your posts always make me SMILE and hold so much truth!! Yeah, I've heard this same stupid shyt of 'once you've had black, you never go back' because the black women are used up so do yourselves a favor and fix what's wrong with your race before you want to climb the putty ladder, ok! Then I'm going to place them on the ground and back up 20 paces so you can pick them up and review them." it's tough i know.....don't really want to put it in your Profile and certainly you know that many people who search...it within their own race...i have the same problem....few black men that i have commented to...said "wow: etc. We usually talked while waiting for the bus - his story, my story. As an artist, brown is the resulting colour of mixing the three primary colours all together.
Of course sometimes you get the ones who only want to ask you if you have found the truth out about the "anatomy rumors" of black men. i've even been told that "You don't "look" white.....yadda yadda....the flip side even if you have a preference you don't really want to voice it too loudly becuz you may meet someone you're own race whom you adore.....one indeed! Best, Do you have a problem approaching Black women? Then one day, not too much later he asked me if I'd like to go dancing.
STEP THREE: The Relationship If you get to the point now where you're dating an Asian girl, you better understand where she's coming from.
Given our immigrant roots, most Asian girls endure a latent insecurity about everything from our boobs to our patriotism (both things that are just slightly there). But if you're going to lock it down and marry your Oriental princess, you must know one final thing: in Chinese wedding traditions, the groom pays for the wedding.
OP: Caucasians are no different than the rest of the female population.
You probably know by now that having an Asian girlfriend is a rite of passage for all white men.All joking aside, people are not that different across cultures: we all know on a fundamental level that there is a nice way to approach people, and a tasteless way to approach people. My Momma simply told them "If you enjoy what you are doing, time flies by and the achievement is terrific" sorta like a watched pot never boils or aging. My solution: I looked at the picture of my secret goal & I walked toward him SMILING & as we began to talk I didnt see the face of a stranger, I REPLACED IT with the face of a my dear best friend and proceeded at ease and friendly which transfers to the other party who is LISTENING. There are way more guys get turned down for many reasons. My advice to you, my brother, is to not and say you did. But, I've had more positive responses to all other backgrounds, than to white women.Be earnest, take a genuine interest, SMILE, crack a joke, be witty/charming/sweet - whatever your particular strong suit is for attracting ladies, just go with it putting your best foot forward with some manners and you can't go wrong. If you are enjoying your daily routine you wont even notice the effect it has on you or others, but if you dread your daily life, others will notice and so will you! My previous years of shyness melted away while I did my job. "Tis far better to have loved and lost, then never to have loved at all"... Women who in some cases, are just screaming out to no longer be alone...wouldn't see me an honest candidate.The stigma of the white woman/black male relationship isnt that big of a deal from my side, Most of my white friends have dated black men, But definetely more so from the black side.I have always had trouble being accepted in a black circle than him being accepted in my circle or even family for that matter. I think this whole thread was created by the OP so that he could get a date or two..After that, it's up to the lady to decide whether she'll reciprocate your interest or not. SO, OP, it is not always the color of the skin that has anything to do with it, but the personality make, the background and way they were raised, etc. :)Not all white woman date black so if your looking for ques to know who to approach, its all about eye contact. William Shakespare....you and I and any other black males..don't love them at all. I'm confident, credible, well-mannered, fit and young. But, you probably won't be surprised to hear that it's black women telling them not to take us on in some cases. And for the women who are about to open the "racism can"..the lid on it. OPI don't remember except that it was much the same way anybody else with class would have approached me.