There are two purposes to the relationship where each wants to get their way. The only way relationships can be healing and successful is to have one single purpose for the relationship. We don’t realize they’re standing there as a mirror showing us specific information about where we need to change our minds.
[It’s important to realize that] we are already safe, loved, valuable, and have exactly the combination of talents and experience we need to live a happy life. When we don’t examine [our old patterns], they show up in our relationships. This is a problem of being insufficiently wired from childhood.
It provides practical uses for EFT Tapping and most EFT'ers should find it very helpful.However, if your benefits are temporary or a more in-depth approach is needed, you are urged to (1) consult The Gold Standard EFT Tapping Tutorial, (2) Explore our newest advancement, Optimal EFT, by reading our free e-book, The Unseen Therapist, Hi Everyone, A Course In Miracles (ACIM) is my favorite spiritual source.It teaches how to be present, and feel safe and comfortable in any situation.Relationships point to where we need to let go of guilt and shame.Hugs, Gary By Colleen Flanagan Dear Gary, Your EFT Newsletters sometimes contain quotes from the book, A Course In Miracles (ACIM), and I wanted to share how I've used EFT with ACIM.
ACIM teachings have changed countless people's lives but many, including me, have found the concepts and wording to be frustrating and difficult to understand.Old childhood guilt, fear and judgment washed over me as my mind echoed with religious admonitions of "How dare you think this way! I tap in the loving ACIM teachings as I read them each day.I've also learned to identify and tap away clients' religious blockages that have kept them stuck in a guilty, self-judgmental, self-destructive holding pattern for years. This is a marvelous quote from one of my favorite books, Illusions by Richard Bach. In his brilliant and inspirational way, Richard teaches…Have you ever had a situation in your life where you were unhappy and needed a change, but didn't know how to create the change? Continue reading → Sometimes we come across a quote that so perfectly fits us, we can't help but put it on and wear it.Even though I remember the nuns and priests teaching me that I don't deserve to work miracles, I choose to release this old energy pattern and accept that I CAN and WILL work miracles via EFT when Father/Mother/God knows I am ready. I continued tapping: Even though I have all these old fears of a vengeful God and hell and purgatory, I feel safe to release these childhood fears, to live in love and peace, doing God's work via EFT, reading and living the ACIM teachings.