I may email again, saying, “If you want to know anything just ask”, etc. It’s that you probably haven’t given her a compelling reason to be.but I still get no questions in return to start a conversation. If you want to know why your email correspondence online is generally flat and falls apart after a few emails, you have to look in the mirror and take responsibility for your part in it.Seriously, my friend, this is a very do-able technique and I’ve helped hundreds of guys (and thousands of women) master online communication.
And don’t forget to let me know how it goes…Also, if her profile is lame and generic, expect her responses to your emails to be the same.Don’t be surprised when a chick whose entire profile consists solely of the phrase, “I love shopping, traveling and my dog,” doesn’t have a clever retort to your email.And yet most of us get online and wonder why it always feels so stale.It’s because YOU’RE making it stale, and you’re accepting stale conversation from others. If you sound like you’re presuming you’ll get an email back, you’re much more likely to get an email back. You’re not here to find out if a person will sleep with you or marry you in a first email. I think we have a lot in common – particularly our mutual love of rum punch.If your email dialogue is flagging, it’s not simply because she’s not interested in you – it’s because you haven’t captured her imagination.
You haven’t created a compelling reason why she should write back to you over all others.” I asked.“It made me funny in response to him,” she replied. But look at the emails you write back to the boring men.“He was so lively and engaging that I sort of had no choice but to come back with something equally witty and creative.”“So by him writing something playful and interesting to you, he actually brought out a more playful and interesting side of you? They’re just as boring as the ones that you received.Who would a woman rather go out with – the boring lunkhead who asks for her number before he’s had a chance to charm her, or the witty guy whose every email she anticipates with delight? So do yourself a favor, Dwayne: stop beating up on yourself because she doesn’t sound interested.Be more interesting, and you’ll never have to wonder if there was anything else that you could do on your own behalf.And yet this one guy with the trivia questions was able to bring out your playful side.”The moral of the story is that you are ALWAYS responsible for how you leave a conversation. By being optimistic, playful, interested and interesting, you can almost always transform any evening into a pleasant experience.