You’re mistaken in thinking that men are going to improve. It’s to become the kind of woman who UNDERSTANDS men, ATTRACTS men, KEEPS men happy, and CHOOSES good men. And no, it’s no different than how James needs to learn to attract, understand, and connect with women in order to keep them happy.Until he does, all he’s going to do is complain about YOU, and how unfair you are to him.I’ve got a great story that I want to share with you today.
The question is whether you are going to be like James and continue to blame the opposite sex for everything. You don’t think there’s something wrong with you if you don’t know how to play the Mozart Clarinet Concerto right off the bat.Evan, how about a corny analogy here: It sounds like enrolling in dating coaching is a lot like learning to play an instrument. You find someone who is a good teacher (good coach) and learn techniques to make you a better musician. And so it should be with learning how to be effective in relationships. No one would attempt to be a clarinet teacher if they couldn’t play clarinet themselves.I enjoy working with guys because, when they’re motivated, they’re hardworking and highly coachable.Plus, the men who gravitate towards me are usually “nice guys” who just need a little bit of an edge to succeed wildly with women.James tells me that after focusing on his career for most of his 20’s, he’s been dating intently for the past year. It seems that whenever he goes out with women, they’re all so SHALLOW.
They never want to TAKE THE TIME to get to know him as a human being.At the time, she told me she was agnostic, and not really into "the whole religion thing." Now, less than six months into our marriage, she tells me she's joined a church and expects me to join her for Sunday services.It's only now that I learn that she has extremely right-wing, religious views.In reading my blog, subscribing to my newsletter and joining one of my coaching programs, you have a chance to learn something that will change your life.The question isn’t whether this information can make a difference.Do you think that, if only MEN changed, you’d be in a happy relationship by now?