It’s a pattern of behavior, not a permanent designation or identity.
I’m getting incredibly lonely and yes before you say it, I did behave like a nice guy tm once and just once.
I was an ass, I made an incredible fool of myself, I traumatized my friends and worst of all, I hurt that poor girls feelings.
On the plus side, most of my closest friends are all female (I do not and have not had romantic feelings for any of them) and they’re great people but they all offer conflicting advice on what my problem is.
I’m fast becoming isolated, I’ve zero self confidence and my self esteem has taken a nose dive, a combination of truly looking into the mirror for once and a mystery illness.
I hated the idea of feelings and I shut them out and didn’t do friends (ironically this is when I received most attention from the females).
For most of my teenage years, I didn’t need people and I didn’t need love.3) When you have the time and energy for it, try out online dating sites to practice dating. 4) Be really nice to yourself and take good care of yourself.James Bond in Skyfall, talking to a beautiful Asian woman " data-medium-file="https://captainawkwarddotcom.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/jamesbond.jpg?The few people I’ve really sparked with are all in relationships.I’m lonely and very different, I’m eccentric, have eccentric tastes and I’m a lot more mature then most people I meet in most social settings (I’ve been regularly mistaken for 40 when I was 18) I’m also a romantic whose entire cultural upbringing utterly rejects the idea of genders freely mixing and all that cabal. I can out-argue almost anyone and I can debate exceptionally well but I’ve zero social skills that aren’t an argument, sports or one of my passions (which many people do not like) I’m regularly putting my foot in it in casual conversations and I have been told in the past that I am far far too intense.I know it’s a bummer to get crushes on people who are already coupled up, but you are sparking with people!