You missed our wild days and we're settled down now. We've learned a lot from our previous relationships.
It's not like a guy who's five years older than you is going to be taking you out for the Denny's early bird special ever day before promptly going to bed, but odds are those 5 a.m. We can still drink people under the table, we just don't want to do it at some crappy, crowded dive bar. We don't want to be shoving our way through a bunch of sweaty people to get them. You're going to hear stories about "the old days" and wonder why we aren't as fun anymore. All right, so no one knows what they want, but we've got a job, if not a career, and some money saved up, because we already did that thing where you spend all your money and then have no money.7.
Do you need help setting up automatic bill pay or your 401(k)?
Be straightforward, just don't reek of desperation in the doing.
I mean, you can show honest interest without stalking the person...(ie.
I like to know how you truely feel about something, whether you like it or not...... The problem with doing something that works for someone else, you are not them, so eventually a woman is going to feel an incongruency with who she thought you were and who you really are.
That's why all the "getting laid" tactics just don't work for long term.
Personally I would prefer straightforward as I don't have the time or the patience for games.
Some people are naturally aloof though and if that's who they are it can be difficult to be friends with them.
call when you say you will call, initiate hanging out, be understanding when life happens).
TDAWell I'd like to start by saying that acting any other way other than yourself wouldn't be the way to go.
With that being said, I prefer a guy who is straight forward.
I don't like someone who gives mixed signals or who beats around the damn bush.
Many people will say 'yes, I'd rather have straightforward', because that's the most logical thing to do.