Survey says I became fascinated with the idea of older men with younger women and wanted to know how other women felt, so I devised a survey and got the opinions of a handful of women who have had some kind of romantic tie to men at least 15 years their senior.Most women think their older fellas are fantastic, with the exception of one woman who complained of being more of a "nurse-maid" than a romantic partner.
Like many women, I fell under the spell of a man who excited my mind, and a man who wanted to hear what I had to say, and I wanted to show my appreciation. With a thick head, I struggled out of bed to answer it.
I invited myself up to his room under the guise of wanting to see what they'd done to the building since renovating it into a hotel/residence. It was the gentleman calling me from his plane back to London as it waited on the tarmac. I've known a lot of men in my life, but I've seldom been treated so well.
This time last year, at the tender age of 43, I admitted to some friends that I kissed a 60-year-old man. The gent in question had flown into Toronto that day from the U.
My friends, still in their 40s, had interesting responses. K., to attend a posh business/cocktail party associated with his work.
That's a risk that a younger woman might take, I suppose, but overall, women who like older men love older men.
Women found their mature men respectful, polite, handsome, generous, intelligent, kind, affectionate, sensitive, and good conversationalists, and were not considered pushy, demanding, or materialistic.After looking at the view and talking about the action on the street below, I sat down beside him and asked if I could kiss him. He wanted to make sure I got home OK and we chatted for a few minutes before he said goodbye. My gentleman carried a hankie and the manners of a bygone age, from a time where men and women treated each other with respect.Meeting this man made me think about the differences between seasoned older men and the urgent expectations of younger men; about maturity and experience vs. An older man's politeness, consideration, and charm can be irresistible, and if he's anything like my guy, it doesn't hurt if he resembles Gregory Peck.As they cuddled together in a gold-encrusted gondola, Sally Humphreys leaned in adoringly for a lingering kiss - from a man almost old enough to be her grandad. His thin, wrinkled lips were puckered like those of a man who had misplaced his dentures.His crepey skin stretched across his thin, boney face, his sun-damaged hand reached for her slender knee, his turkey neck wobbled in anticipation of a night of passion. One can only imagine that when they did make love, Miss Humphreys laid back and thought of the Bank of England.The majority of women who took the survey found their older men confident, aware, and responsible, and all women recognized the differences between older and younger men.