Shannon Kaiser is a best-selling author, international speaker, retreat leader, and teacher.Her much-anticipated new book, The Self-Love Experiment, will be released in August 2017.
Whatever the reason, their excuses mean they are not open to long lasting love or an intimate connection at this time. The one most women skip over is the way and how often they talk about their exes.If there is any animosity, anger or sadness surrounding their exes, they have not healed completely.Hear this: Not everyone you feel a connection with, no matter how mind-blowing, is your soul mate.You can fall for someone who is totally wrong for you, as unfair and confounding as that reality can be.In recognizing that I have been obsessed with emotionally unavailable men, I had to ask myself, My inner voice chimed in and said, "We only accept the love we think we deserve."If you find yourself wrapped up in an emotionally unavailable person, it's okay.
The best thing to do is get clear about your desires and let the person go.
If you are in a toxic, abusive, or non-reciprocal relationship, withdraw even when your passion is strong and says “stay.” Judith Orloff MD is a psychiatrist, intuitive healer, and NY Times bestselling author.
Her latest book is The Ecstasy of Surrender: 12 Surprising Ways Letting Go Can Empower Your Life, upon which this article is based. Orloff, an assistant clinical professor of Psychiatry at UCLA, synthesizes the pearls of traditional medicine with cutting edge knowledge of intuition, energy, and spirituality. Orloff’s work has been featured on The Today Show, CNN, Oprah Magazine and USA Today.
She’s been named on of the Top 100 Women to Watch in Wellness by mindbodygreen and "One of the freshest voices in mental health and wellness" by Chicken Soup for the Soul.
Shannon's the founder of Play With The World.com, named one of the Top 75 Personal Development Websites, and Top 100 Self-Help Blogs by the Institute for the Psychology of Eating.
If they only use text message to communicate with you this is another red flag.4. If you try to make plans with an emotional unavailable person, it's like trying to catch a fish with your bare hands, slippery and frustrating.