Although frankly, I believe that their values have gone down since the time of Spanish colonization and many once thought ‘taboos’ are now accepted, (ie.You will find women in extremely short skirts roaming the streets at night) they are still (or want to be viewed as) conservative. Putting it bluntly, if you are seriously dating a Filipina woman, you shouldn’t expect to get her to bed on your first date.
Since you came from different cultures, it would impress her if you make her feel that you are interested in learning and understanding her roots. In fact, karaoke is always part of parties or celebrations.You can ask questions, learn to speak in Filipino or in her local dialect and try their exotic food. You can also try to learn a Filipino song and serenade her. If they invite you to join in the singing, don’t turn them down.They aren’t showy and may even give the impression of not being interested or not appreciating whatever you did.They love to act ‘cool and collected’ and when it gets too much, you may find them excusing themselves to the comfort room where they can jump for joy at the sweet thing you did for them.If you have slept in her place and if she’s still with her family, their breakfast will blow you away.
Usual breakfast includes tocino, tapa, hotdog or corn beef paired with egg, rice, and coffee.
In fact, be thankful if she even allows a goodnight kiss when the night is over.
Note the use of ‘seriously dating’-off course there are women who like anywhere else are just after so called ‘one night stands’ but if you really like the girl and she knows it, don’t expect anything more than a ‘thank you’.
Once she’s your girl, she’ll treat you like a King and you’ll wonder why oh why you didn’t meet her earlier.
If you are wooing a girl, whether it’s a Westerner, a Filipino or not spending something for your woman is always a point for you.
Next point, mi amigo, is that these women are gentle and expect to be treated likewise.