Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.i find it extreamly hard to find anyone i like and when i do, it seems they don't contact me back or don't like me.i do think if i was just single it would be alot easier or a mummy with a non disabled child, as quite alot of people are already put of knowing you have a child and then knowing that child is disabled seems to put them more of.
It's just a matter of realizing that it will be harder for us than for others, so that we don't make ourselves nuts while we search.
It's hard enough dating as a single Mother with an able bodied child.
Sure, it happens, but not often and usually not because they were looking for that specifically.
21 year old men want someone who is accessible when they are available and whose disposable income is available for going out and having fun. Add to that, the additional considerations your child requires and 21 year old men, are going to simply skip onto a simpler option.
there are some really nice people out there who say what a fantastic job your doing, but it's not a job, it's what i do to make my son's life better for him.i am a single mummy at the age of 21 and my son is coming up to 4 this june, he is severly disabled e.g cannot eat, drink, walk, talk, sit, stand, hold his own head, he is like a 3 month old mentally, and his condition is terminal.i've being on this site for the past 2 years and i have met a few guys, from this website, but i find it so hard to date as i only have a break if my son is in respite, which is normally once a week but sometimes he may not go if he's ill, or in question is, how do you date when you have a disabled number one priority before anyone or anything is my son and he will always come first I'm sorry to read that and I hope this doesn't come across as rude or harsh, I'm not a sugar coat type of guy, Amy you have challenges, I mean you're 21 years old , with a disabled child that needs constant care.