He recalls how after investing his time on online relationships, he realised that there are no common grounds between them and also that many of the users “seem superficial”.“I have only had good rapport with two girls I met via the app so far, and I felt the relationships might lead to the next level.Especially when a large part of the society is still seemingly conservative in its ways.
Then there are those like Justin*, a Kochi-based young media professional who uses Tinder.
He says that his experience dating Malayali girls online has not been compelling.
However, despite our bond, we couldn’t make it work.
Our careers keep us busy and many don’t feel the need to pursue a relationship along with it.
“Our ‘Malayali mentality’ has to be set aside, if online dating has to lead to healthy relationships.” Many users agree that a majority of Malayalis are yet to get a hang of the dating concept — online and offline — and still believe that dating means either hook-up or marriage.
The team of Aisle tells us, “We have created the platform specifically to enable meaningful relationships, and Malayalis, who are looking for casual hook-ups, might be disappointed.” Those looking for serious relationships though can take heart that two of its managing partners Able Joseph and Bivin Benny, both of whom are Malayalis, have found their soulmates through the app.“Where could one take out the girl they are interested in, is a question that leaves many baffled,” he says.“Unlike in other places, where there are pubs and cafes tailor-made for dating, it is difficult to zero in on a few appropriate places in the city; the only exception being Fort Kochi.” Women users though have a different story to tell.Like a lone wolf trapped on a floating iceberg, how will you ever return to your wolf pack and find a hot wolf-mate to love? When you date a man or a woman, the feely-weelies and sickening lovey-doveyness at…Dating often serves as the catalyst for a boy and girl to get to know each other better and determine whether it’s time to take the relationship forward.While no one can replace the love you shared with a deceased spouse, it is never too late to find someone else that you can love.