Fun kinky things when dating

Before you consider walking away from your relationship, read on.

We spoke with sex and relationship expert Annabelle Knight and creator of the Sexual Pro Series Webinar videos Dr.

It allows you the space to learn about each other sexually. "Those who believe in sexual destiny are worse off than those who believe in sexual growth.

It is a common misconception that sex should be effortless with the person you love. That is, if you believe that a relationship takes work, you’re more likely to have a satisfying relationship — and you’re better able to face challenges when they arise.

After all, everyone deserves the sex (and relationship) they’ve always dreamed of.

If you find that you are both unhappy, don’t be upset—this could actually be a good thing.

If still nothing changes, then you need to take an honest look at your relationship.

You don’t want to (or deserve to) hang onto an unfulfilling relationship that may have ran its course."If, however, one of you refuses to talk about it or make changes, you may not be compatible.Compatibility is rooted in each partner being willing to put in a similar amount of effort." So, how do you put in this effort if you believe the compatibility is there? If both you and your partner are unhappy, you may be able to work with each other to improve things.“This means that, in effect, sex is never effortless.In order to have a happy and healthy sex life, you need to put in the effort.” Think about it this way: If you plan to be with your partner long-term, you’re going to be having sex with them for a very long time.If you believe fate determines the outcome of a relationship (or sex life), then you’re less likely to be satisfied." This is a great (and rational) way to think about things. “Even those in long-term relationships may find that over time their sexual appetite changes,” she says.