Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.Ok, I have known someone who was indeed born intersexed.
I know you can adopt/surragecy/fostering these days but not everyone feels able to do that.
Im fairly open minded about children but that may change as i get older and if having my own child with my partner was reallly important to me then having a relationship with an intersex partner who could not do that would be a lot harder.
Obviously genetics giving you the sex of a person merely means that "intersex" people are just deformed rather than a specific sex.
If you go by genitalia then the answers are not obvious!!
I have no idea how id react to an intersex person i met for dating.
Id like to think i would consider them as the whole balance of thier characteristics not just thier specific genitalia, but being a hetrosexual person if there are not enough "female" features to trigger subconcious attraction then i doubt it could work.
You could probably argue that having one sex identity from birth would solve most of those issues.
you would then carry the risk that the child grows up and identifys themself with the opposite sex to what was forced on them by surgery.
If you go by genetics then you are either female or male.
From what i understand of genetics any featus with other combinations of genes is unlikely to survive pregnancy anyway.
An intersex child growing up as the wrong sex will come to no more harm than a normally sexed child who grows up to become TV and has the ops etc.