I have a theory on why it’s so hard to find love online. But, when we go out on an actual date, we are disappointed because we don’t get the same emotional sensation that we get when we watch a movie. You have to sell yourself so that others want to go out with you and see what you’re all about. Online dating is hard because we are “browsing” profiles, making judgments based only on a photo.
By then, the pool of quality partners has shrunk, and they are left with mostly “undesirables.”Don’t misunderstand me, I’m not saying it’s only women who are the problem. Television and movies have brainwashed us to want and expect one thing. Many profiles have the same types of photos and say the same thing, i.e. I love to travel…” It takes skill to write a compelling dating profile.
Often, the two people haven’t heard the other’s voice before they meet.
You can learn so much more from a phone conversation with someone and less gets lost in translation over the phone than it does through texting. Before online dating sites took off, it was hard to meet people if you weren’t in an academic environment, such as college.
After school ends, other than the job, or a bar, where do people who are looking for love meet each other? If you’re lucky, you might meet your perfect someone in the produce aisle of the market, but this is a long shot.
It created this false sense of expectations and a sense of entitlement that isn’t realistic in real life. Big,” but only realize that he doesn’t exist when they are in their late 30’s or 40’s. Your dating profile has to pop and stand out from the rest of the crowd.
Too much emphasis is on the photo, but that is how the system is set up. This is the Sex and the City syndrome I mentioned above.
😉 You might not feel the fireworks on a first date, but they might just go off on the second or third date.
If you don’t give each other a chance to really get to know each other, you might just click past the love of your life.
Were you the only one feeling how great you were together? Most women never set out to find and fall into a relationship for the wrong reasons, but it’s an unfortunately common process.
Here are 3 of the wrong reasons to get involved in a relationship: Wrong Reason #1: Avoiding That Lonely Feeling Another weekend rolls around…but you have no one special to share it with.
” You might not see it…but on an unconscious level, the struggles of a BAD RELATIONSHIP may actually be more comfortable and familiar to you than the idea of being alone.
When you fear being alone, you’re much more likely to make bad choices and end up getting involved with and staying in bad relationships because it distracts you from feeling lonely.
While online dating provides a platform for people to meet each other who wouldn’t otherwise cross paths, the whole system as created a misguided expectation of instant gratification and fireworks on the first date.