You might try to talk about how you are feeling–your partner turns everything around and tries to talk about everything you’re doing wrong.
Even when they hurt you, they make you feel bad for the pain it has caused them.
They might bring up personal issues at inappropriate times.
If you work hard to fix one thing, they will find something else that is wrong.
They will even tell you this if they get the chance.
The police have always been out to get them even though they never do anything wrong.
You feel like there is something seriously wrong with you.
You might say that you aren’t comfortable staying overnight together–your partner does so anyway.They often don’t actually feel guilty about what they have done, only that they were caught.Other people might warn you about dating your partner–if they have a track record of abuse, most likely it is only a matter of time until they abuse you.He or she might get upset–especially if you try to break up with them or say that you are leaving–however, there is no underlying remorse for hurting you.He or she might say that they are sorry if they hurt you (hit you, scream at you, cheat on you…etc.) and promise that it will never happen again, but their apology is more manipulative than sincere.They can be funny, easy-going, exciting, attractive.