so your ladies over 50 were (are) probably taking estrogen since most doctors put women on it or at least try to recommend it. None of my post-menopausal women friends have any problems with their sex drive - and no one takes hormone replacements. The single women I know would just like to find a guy who is as interested as they are. The lady who wrote you is correct in some sense (about the hormonal thing); but not entirely.There ARE often sexual problems associated with menopause; but they can be short-term.Here are just a few reasons why: A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, "What are you thinking? If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit aroundwhining about it. Few women past the age of 40 give ahoot what you might think about her or what she's doing. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...
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I'm way-y-y-y- over 50, and my problem has been that younger men in their 40's and 50's who can no longer "perform" adequately in a "normal" fashion, respond to my ads thinking that an older woman can be satisfied with oral alone.
In addition, it helps if she has an understanding partner who is willing to give her a little time to adjust to the problems.
A lot of the problem can be alleviated with non-medicinal methods. I will tell you that I'm post-menopausal and I have absolutely NO problem with sex.
Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. Its also hard to find parents of younger women in 20's to 30's who are going to approve of the guy who is 20 years older. I haven't experienced it myself, but why not have lovers in their 40s or 50s or more?
MY EXPERIENCE IS THAT WOMEN OVER 40 ENJOY SEX-- MANY HAD BAD SEX LIVES IN THEIR MARRIAGES OR PAST RELATIONSHIPSONE LADY JUST WROTE ME THIS:as far as older women craving sex. if you were castrated, (and did not have the testosterone patch,) do you think you would still crave sex? At least in the early 20s For my own part, my relationship has an age difference of 18 years and I am 21. Again, it really depends on what you want, and what you're willing to put up with for your relationship. I certainly wouldn't want an age or a time to stop me from having fun, so why should anybody else?
*By the way, i didnt/dont take the estrogent/progest..i talked to my Dr. Yes i am 43yrs old its really hard to find a man to be able to keep up with us . I see this problem more frequently among women my age and older.
and the "side affects" definitely outweigh the benefits...i will be 51 in August, and would appreciate a man who could like/love me for ME (which includes sharing the remote AND the bed...) bound for camelot..... I turned 40 and so did my sex ,drive turn up 40 notches . Menopause or no menopause they still have wants, needs and desires and a lot of men who are 40 just don't have the corresponding physical ability without chemical enhancement. Well, I would like to add My two cents here, first age is just a # that some people put too much emphasis on, I have slept with Women of all ages and I think the more mature Women are warmer and sexier and love to have orgasms, this " problem " works both ways, men also are looked at as being past it after a certain age, which in My case is just not true, in fcat Women do have a hard time staying with me in bed, but thats fine I now like to adore my partner and hopefully give her all the pleasure, it turns me on when they get " OFF " Best wishes to all.....
Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. A woman over 40 has the self-assurance tointroduce you to her women friends.