Like you said, I will definitely be taking the honest approach. But like you said, even if he does I know I have the strength in me to do this alone. your story gave me so much hope :)) I got pregnant with my first after only a few months too.
When I told him he was shocked but excited and told me he wanted to raise the baby together and I moved in with him.
He proposed to me on my first mothers day after our daughter was born. when i found out i was pregnant, we had been dating for about a month, and i had just signed a one year lease on a new apartment.
It was very difficult for both of us as we lived an hour apart and neither of us were ready for a kid.
Hell, we weren't even sure about each other at the time.
that day he told me he would be there for me no matter what my decision was.
My son just turned a year old on monday and his biological father has had nothing to do with him. I wouldn't tell him over the phone or a text or fb or anything but face to face. From what you said he's an amazing guy and I hope he stands up and takes responsibility for the baby.
I love this child and am bonding with it more and more all the time there's no way I can kill it!
I just wish I got the reaction of the other posts as I would love the baby to have his dad around, I don't want to be alone either! But we ended up dating and found out at 6 wks that I was pregnant. I understand what you're going through and it is definitely not a burden you want to bear alone. My boyfriend and I went on our first date Oct 1 and weren't even "officially dating" until Oct 17... Nov 1 it was confirmed and Dec 15 I had u/s #1 only to find that we are having TWINS! Much love to you darlin and good luck I sent the same text to my boyfriend lol we've been together 3 months before I found out he said it doesn't sound good what's up I texted I didn't want to tell him over the phone but he called anyways lol I just told him but he was happier than I was so it all worked out he's actually more supportive and loving than he was before which is great I understand exactly how u feel..late husband and I got pregnant about a week into our "relationship" and at about 5 weeks I had to tell him.
I hope that ur bf will stand up and be supportive of whatever u decide..that u also take into consideration his feelings as well. I got pregnant with my son less than a month after dating his sperm donor..I found out we had already been broken up for 3 weeks.
My story is a little different cuz my son's "father" is a complete ******* deadbeat. I told him that I'd give him time to figure out what he wanted to do but I wouldn't wait forever either.
Shes 15 months now and I'm due with our second in June. IMO you have to first decide what you want to do and stand by it no matter what. I think having a clear plan will make it easier on u and u will not feel pressured if something goes wrong. My boyfriend and i were dating for about two weeks before i got pregnant. i sent him a text message saying "we need to talk" and he said "you're not pregnant are you?